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Tuesday, September 26, 2017

Discovering Value

It's been a year since many generous & caring people came together to support the ‘HPD K-9’s Needs Our Help’ campaign.  Our family choose  to show our appreciation of a heroic profession and were able to positively affect this cause.  In the process, we stumbled onto a wonderful phenomenon; the blessings reflected back onto our family were immeasurable.   

Although I grew up with religious reminders of the value of “giving back,” as a physician I wanted evidence.  So I started researching...and the scientific evidence is there.  Studies conducted at the University of British Columbia concluded that “charitable giving not only makes people feel better but can lower their blood pressure.”  Other scientists using fMRI discovered that when people are doing charitable acts, the midbrain or pleasure center lights up.  This explains that “warm glow” or “good feeling” you get when doing a kind act.  Another study published in Science shows that “spending money on others promotes happiness.”

Therefore the scientific equation looks something like this:   

Compassion + Action = Improved Physical and Mental Health

Not only is there plenty of anecdotal evidence, the data also supports it.  A commonly questioned cliche comes to mind…. “it is better to give than receive.”   Cliches come into being for a reason…because they are usually true.   Watching our children stand a little taller by adding value to others was priceless.  

I hope to continue to focus my energy on adding value through my blog at www.OwnYourFocus.com.  Thank you again for all of YOUR compassionate action!  


Wednesday, September 20, 2017

Pivot!


In business start-ups, the term "pivot" is used to change direction when the initial business idea isn't working. This maneuver isn't seen as a failure, but as a tool for growth & discovery.
If you find the direction of your life isn't adding to your happiness, PIVOT!

5th Grader Owning His Focus

This 5th grader definitely 'Owns His Focus'! Great example of how a struggle can be turned into an opportunity.
As a pediatrician, I hope to improve the mental and physical wellbeing of patients. Research is showing that by adding value to others, like 11-year-old Austin King Hurt, we may be improving our own mental and physical well being too. Meaning by following this 5th grader's example, we are improving our lives....perhaps altruism is the best medicine!


Tuesday, September 12, 2017

Published by Shannon Smith Maxey · September 6 at 8:53pm · "I had a mother who instilled so much self esteem in me that peer pressure and negativity never even got close to the center of my soul". --Gary Vaynerchuk, business mogul His mom knew how to build resilience! Please share any esteem building techniques that you may have used or seen. Thanks!